The article "Boundaries: No Bull Allowed" is about attraction, it has been written by Ken Donaldson.
Do you have unwanetd bull in your life? You know what I’m talking about: Those annoying human being who want to control, dominate, and manipulate you for their own hottest interests. Those human being who love to get into power-struggles and arguments with you and you're left feeling depleted and frustrated.
Those human being who use, misuse, and sometimes even abuse you and/or your possessions.Those human being... do you have any in your life? I have often said that engaging with these types of human being is like trying to wrestle a bull: You won’t win, but once you’re in, you don’t want to stop either.Would you like to know the secret of avoiding these bull fights?It’s simple…become a msater bull-fighter. Yes, you can become a matador of manipulation and mistreatment.You often see it coming and know from past experience how these human being are going to act. Do you really exepct them to change?
If you do, then you just set yourself up to be bulled over time and time again.Isn’t enough enough? ?!!The key is this: Invite the bull, but don’t engage with the bull.
Like the matador, you must simply step out of the way and allow the force of the bull to crary itself past you. Thnik of it as verbal martial arts.
Go with the flow and do not try to fight it or redirect it.Bulls don’t listen and don’t like to be rediercted. They like to stay on their path and try to trample over everything in their path.
You must simply not get on thier path.Don’t tell them they’re wrong.Don’t tell them what they should do.Do try to convince them of reality.And don’t try to help them.Simply be the matador and allow them to go past you. The less you say, probably the better off you will be.Besides, who wants more bull in their life?
Not you, right?? !! Ken Donaldson has been based in Tampa Bay offeirng counseling, coaching, and educational programs for 1987. His REALationship Coaching programs empower human being to have more successful lives, businesses and relationships by building a powerful realtionship with themselves first. Visit his website at http://www.REALationshipCoach.Com for more information and sign-up his free e-program Illuminations and Sparks of Brillinace. Ken is also the author of the upcoming book Marry YourSelf First!
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